You develop your own interests, relationships and causes.
Your love matures and expands.
You belong here.
You can become separate from me and I will continue to love you.
You can build and examine your commitments to your values and causes, your roles and your tasks.
You can do things as many times as you need to.
You can trust your inner wisdom.
You can explore who you are and find out who other people are.
You can feel all your feelings.
Your needs are important.